Almost two years down the lane... What was I doing this time? These days saw many ups and downs...many changes in me as an individual..the value of companionship..The value of relationships....People who were considered close to heart..people who came near the threshold of life and took a turn after sometime..Some who are not the same, but can be relied upon in case of the need for a shoulder..some whom I missed understanding well....And above all new friendships..new pillars of strength...Along with the sweet people in my life.. :)
All that happened in two years cannot be summarized in a few sentences..But I just need some scribblings to denote what I have been through all this time...and this is for me..for my gap..
May this journal continue :)
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Celebrations - How important are they in life?
Celebrations are always considered as times of joy..not only of joy..but, a time of togetherness, a time when a person gets the feeling that "I am not alone", I have people who I can call my own, who will cherish my presence and my accomplishments. I believe each and every person who celebrates any occasion of his life would have all these at least deep in his mind, if not as a visible thought of concern.
We have been hearing a lot of the various levels of celebrations - from star weddings to declaration of the New Seven Wonders to what not, consuming of crores and crores of rupees. For the people who are involved in it, the money spent would not be a matter of concern at all. They would be happy to have celebrated in the best possible way. Whether there were people who did not have the money to have one cup of tea in a day do not matter to them. They are happy and they do not care about others. I do not claim that you can the make the whole world happy, but when you are celebrating, it would be better if you can at least think a bit of the unprivileged. I am of the opinion that it would bring you a different kind of mental satisfaction at the end of the day.
For me, celebrations are all a matter of sharing the joy with those who are so important to me in my life. I don't believe in pompous parties and extravagant decorations, but I would give more thought into spending quality time, as per my heart desires. That would be my mode of enjoyment and that would help me feel satisfactory that the day was good.
Yesterday was a day of celebration for me. As I had pointed out in previous note, we were celebrating the first anniversary of the change in our marital status. We had a good time together, a lunch, good round of roaming around and shopping, and a superb dinner. But, the fact was that we spend the time between ourselves, reassuring the effects the magical presence of both could do to either of us. Rather than anything else, this gave us good mental happiness, and the power to embark on to yet another year. Almighty was so kind in granting one good year to us. We laughed, fought, cried, fell down, and rose again through the learnings, had different opinions, but finally consented to one..All these came in to our minds yesterday. But, HE gave us the strength to go forward. He had already put in the feeling of oneness which was so important to us and which is our guiding factor. Yes...We believe we are one..we are together..always...Yesterday my Amma was telling about the dream in her mind, when she was wishing us on our special day. Let the God above shower his blessings to walk together and also to let dreams come true..And last, but not the least, Thanks to my friend for life to having made me so happy with a wonderful way to celebrate. :)
We have been hearing a lot of the various levels of celebrations - from star weddings to declaration of the New Seven Wonders to what not, consuming of crores and crores of rupees. For the people who are involved in it, the money spent would not be a matter of concern at all. They would be happy to have celebrated in the best possible way. Whether there were people who did not have the money to have one cup of tea in a day do not matter to them. They are happy and they do not care about others. I do not claim that you can the make the whole world happy, but when you are celebrating, it would be better if you can at least think a bit of the unprivileged. I am of the opinion that it would bring you a different kind of mental satisfaction at the end of the day.
For me, celebrations are all a matter of sharing the joy with those who are so important to me in my life. I don't believe in pompous parties and extravagant decorations, but I would give more thought into spending quality time, as per my heart desires. That would be my mode of enjoyment and that would help me feel satisfactory that the day was good.
Yesterday was a day of celebration for me. As I had pointed out in previous note, we were celebrating the first anniversary of the change in our marital status. We had a good time together, a lunch, good round of roaming around and shopping, and a superb dinner. But, the fact was that we spend the time between ourselves, reassuring the effects the magical presence of both could do to either of us. Rather than anything else, this gave us good mental happiness, and the power to embark on to yet another year. Almighty was so kind in granting one good year to us. We laughed, fought, cried, fell down, and rose again through the learnings, had different opinions, but finally consented to one..All these came in to our minds yesterday. But, HE gave us the strength to go forward. He had already put in the feeling of oneness which was so important to us and which is our guiding factor. Yes...We believe we are one..we are together..always...Yesterday my Amma was telling about the dream in her mind, when she was wishing us on our special day. Let the God above shower his blessings to walk together and also to let dreams come true..And last, but not the least, Thanks to my friend for life to having made me so happy with a wonderful way to celebrate. :)
Monday, July 9, 2007
A tribute to the institution of marriage - Happy Wedding Anniversary to us..:)
Every person takes on the institution of marriage in a different way. For some, it is just an action to be fulfilled in life. For some others, it is something which should be exercised giving our possible very best. I belong to the latter part. I believe, it is all about getting someone as a life long companion, someone who do not wipe the tears that fall off your cheeks, but rather makes sure that such a situation is not created.
Friendship is a gift that God has given to us. And friends are the people who stay with us through thick and thin, having a great laugh when we are happy and sharing our heavy heart, when we are sad. I take on the concept of marriage, as a bonding with a special person, with the life long companionship as the base. It is like getting a life long friend.
And everything depends on fate. Particularly, in an arranged marriage situation, whatever you know of the person is very less. Hence fate determines the way you are going to savour your life. And Let us pray to God Almighty for a peaceful and pleasant life.
All these thoughts came up, when I was turning back at my one year old married life. Yes..Tomorrow is July 10, 2007. And it was exactly an year ago, that I became Mrs. Vidya Vaidyanath. Precisely, the day in which Gopu became my best friend for life. We have had number of good and bad moments in this short span. Sweet memories like our honeymoon at Kodai and Lonavala, our short stay at Pune, the shift to Mumbai and Capgemini, and the roaming around sessions in Mumbai..and what not...:)...But surely, our pricely moment in the last one year is our abode "Sreedalam". That is our most precious possession till now. Thank God for all that You have given to us till now, and praying for Your blessings in the years to come.
Once again...Let us celebrate our Anniversary in our own special way :)
Friendship is a gift that God has given to us. And friends are the people who stay with us through thick and thin, having a great laugh when we are happy and sharing our heavy heart, when we are sad. I take on the concept of marriage, as a bonding with a special person, with the life long companionship as the base. It is like getting a life long friend.
And everything depends on fate. Particularly, in an arranged marriage situation, whatever you know of the person is very less. Hence fate determines the way you are going to savour your life. And Let us pray to God Almighty for a peaceful and pleasant life.
All these thoughts came up, when I was turning back at my one year old married life. Yes..Tomorrow is July 10, 2007. And it was exactly an year ago, that I became Mrs. Vidya Vaidyanath. Precisely, the day in which Gopu became my best friend for life. We have had number of good and bad moments in this short span. Sweet memories like our honeymoon at Kodai and Lonavala, our short stay at Pune, the shift to Mumbai and Capgemini, and the roaming around sessions in Mumbai..and what not...:)...But surely, our pricely moment in the last one year is our abode "Sreedalam". That is our most precious possession till now. Thank God for all that You have given to us till now, and praying for Your blessings in the years to come.
Once again...Let us celebrate our Anniversary in our own special way :)
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Why should boys have all the fun?
I know I may sound a typical feminist to anyone who reads this sentence. I was just quoting the statement from an advertisement which brought in some feelings into me. But, the fact is that I am not a feminist. I believe in accurate opinions, strong character and value for whatever a person does and all the more sincerity in thoughts, feelings and actions.
Actually, the punch line of the ad, invoked so many questions in my mind. And to top it, I read a piece of news which talked about a gal who was stabbed by her lover for walking away from their affair and the fact that after days of struggling for life, she succumbed finally. And this happened in a busy street in day time. Seriously I am not bothered about where it happened and why did not the passers-by react to this and all that. You cannot expect such considerate reactions from people living in this century. Leave people living in metros, you cannot expect this from those living in rural areas even.
What bothered me a lot was the fact that the reason that made the guy do such a big cruelty to the gal. As per the news, they had a relationship running between them and had stopped that a few days back, due to parental opposition. Since it was the gal who took the first step of walking back, he was not able to succumb to that. Hence, this cruel gesture.
This poses some other questions to me. For every individual, his/her life is so important and our own decisions should be the ultimate in that regard. But, in some matters like relationships which pose parental pressure, would you as an individual try to pacify and make your parents understand, or would you just walk with the person you love, leaving the people who took all pains for you, right from the day you were admitted to this beautiful world? I would say, it depends from person to person, but, the fact that you are embarking on to a relationship when people to whom you mean so much and vice-versa are too much disappointed. It is very sure that you cannot feel good at heart at this situation. And ultimately, you are doing this for your own mental happiness and with that, if you get an additional disappointment, then doesn't that spoil your happiness?
I am not of the opinion that affairs and subsequent marriages are bad, but the fact that when embarking into such relations, get all people who are close with you, to be in the happier mood, to shower their blessings on you. Make them understand what you feel like and why you say that this relationship is important for you. Make them understand the importance your partner is going to make not only in your life, but also in the lives of all associated with you. I know this is easily said than done. But, the truth is that you should be able to do it.
Many a time, as I was quoting in the example earlier in my thoughts, gals are the ones who get worried when parents oppose their relationship. I am not saying that guys do not get upset, but many a time, they would be ready to face, or they be ready to try till the last moment hoping a positive response. But, gals would get really worried and there would only be a very small percentage who would actually have the courage to face any consequences that would come. You cannot blame it on the girls, but it is their true feminine nature that comes in. And here comes the tragic part. The worry causes them to take the last step, with a real heavy heart. The last decision...to walk away. But, when taking this decision, a fact that any girl should understand is that you are bound to take care of the masculine nature here. A gal may be able to suppress her feelings and say that last word, but a guy would not be able to actually take it so easily. His consciousness would tell him to go forward, keeping aside all negative thoughts and oppositions. This would prevent him to accept this fact. And to top it all, from the next day, the gal starts avoiding him, which is like a humiliation to him. This would make him take the last step. And the funniest part of it is that the gal would be blamed many a time for having embarked on the relationship and for having dropped it off in an instant. I am not generalizing this, but this is a common situation in many Indian states, at least.
The only way is either be sure of all situations and circumstances, when you embark on relationships, and also whether you would be able to convince all oppositions, if required. I am not saying that we can predict the future, but at least you should have the confidence to embark on it. And as they say, Love happens accidentally. So if this doesn't work out for you and the situation for walk away is unavoidable, be sure that both ends are at peace and are able to accept the fact. This is quite important for a girl the most. No blames should come for you when you walk away. A relationship is not a wrong thing to happen, neither a walk away is, under the most unavoidable cases. But it all depends on how it is handled. Certain instances of lovers being cruel could not be avoided, as such cases are never in your hands, but in all normal circumstances, all necessary steps can be done.
Approach any relationship with utmost sincerity, thinking many times, before the final "yes". But, if God not willing, then, be good at walk-aways, and do think of walk-aways only if it is to that extent unavoidable.
Love happens to both people involved. It happens when both share their feelings for each other. But, why should a gal only suffer the blame of being walked-away, when her gentle and cute nature and her concern for the happiness of her people, brings her the whole blame? Leave relationships, why should their be a separate eye for all actions related to gals, even if they have proved their efficiency? I am not saying that gals should protest against being looked upon from a different eye. That doesn't help. For some situations, the genetic differences and physical built-up differences between a male and a female are quite important. But, for situations where they have proved their efficiency or in situations where, a heart-breaking decision by a gal couldn't be accepted well, should not be a factor for her to be arrowed out. Consider efficiency and maturity and the character more than anything else. Why should boys have all the fun for all actions, in which gals have proved to be efficient? Just a wide thought :)
Actually, the punch line of the ad, invoked so many questions in my mind. And to top it, I read a piece of news which talked about a gal who was stabbed by her lover for walking away from their affair and the fact that after days of struggling for life, she succumbed finally. And this happened in a busy street in day time. Seriously I am not bothered about where it happened and why did not the passers-by react to this and all that. You cannot expect such considerate reactions from people living in this century. Leave people living in metros, you cannot expect this from those living in rural areas even.
What bothered me a lot was the fact that the reason that made the guy do such a big cruelty to the gal. As per the news, they had a relationship running between them and had stopped that a few days back, due to parental opposition. Since it was the gal who took the first step of walking back, he was not able to succumb to that. Hence, this cruel gesture.
This poses some other questions to me. For every individual, his/her life is so important and our own decisions should be the ultimate in that regard. But, in some matters like relationships which pose parental pressure, would you as an individual try to pacify and make your parents understand, or would you just walk with the person you love, leaving the people who took all pains for you, right from the day you were admitted to this beautiful world? I would say, it depends from person to person, but, the fact that you are embarking on to a relationship when people to whom you mean so much and vice-versa are too much disappointed. It is very sure that you cannot feel good at heart at this situation. And ultimately, you are doing this for your own mental happiness and with that, if you get an additional disappointment, then doesn't that spoil your happiness?
I am not of the opinion that affairs and subsequent marriages are bad, but the fact that when embarking into such relations, get all people who are close with you, to be in the happier mood, to shower their blessings on you. Make them understand what you feel like and why you say that this relationship is important for you. Make them understand the importance your partner is going to make not only in your life, but also in the lives of all associated with you. I know this is easily said than done. But, the truth is that you should be able to do it.
Many a time, as I was quoting in the example earlier in my thoughts, gals are the ones who get worried when parents oppose their relationship. I am not saying that guys do not get upset, but many a time, they would be ready to face, or they be ready to try till the last moment hoping a positive response. But, gals would get really worried and there would only be a very small percentage who would actually have the courage to face any consequences that would come. You cannot blame it on the girls, but it is their true feminine nature that comes in. And here comes the tragic part. The worry causes them to take the last step, with a real heavy heart. The last decision...to walk away. But, when taking this decision, a fact that any girl should understand is that you are bound to take care of the masculine nature here. A gal may be able to suppress her feelings and say that last word, but a guy would not be able to actually take it so easily. His consciousness would tell him to go forward, keeping aside all negative thoughts and oppositions. This would prevent him to accept this fact. And to top it all, from the next day, the gal starts avoiding him, which is like a humiliation to him. This would make him take the last step. And the funniest part of it is that the gal would be blamed many a time for having embarked on the relationship and for having dropped it off in an instant. I am not generalizing this, but this is a common situation in many Indian states, at least.
The only way is either be sure of all situations and circumstances, when you embark on relationships, and also whether you would be able to convince all oppositions, if required. I am not saying that we can predict the future, but at least you should have the confidence to embark on it. And as they say, Love happens accidentally. So if this doesn't work out for you and the situation for walk away is unavoidable, be sure that both ends are at peace and are able to accept the fact. This is quite important for a girl the most. No blames should come for you when you walk away. A relationship is not a wrong thing to happen, neither a walk away is, under the most unavoidable cases. But it all depends on how it is handled. Certain instances of lovers being cruel could not be avoided, as such cases are never in your hands, but in all normal circumstances, all necessary steps can be done.
Approach any relationship with utmost sincerity, thinking many times, before the final "yes". But, if God not willing, then, be good at walk-aways, and do think of walk-aways only if it is to that extent unavoidable.
Love happens to both people involved. It happens when both share their feelings for each other. But, why should a gal only suffer the blame of being walked-away, when her gentle and cute nature and her concern for the happiness of her people, brings her the whole blame? Leave relationships, why should their be a separate eye for all actions related to gals, even if they have proved their efficiency? I am not saying that gals should protest against being looked upon from a different eye. That doesn't help. For some situations, the genetic differences and physical built-up differences between a male and a female are quite important. But, for situations where they have proved their efficiency or in situations where, a heart-breaking decision by a gal couldn't be accepted well, should not be a factor for her to be arrowed out. Consider efficiency and maturity and the character more than anything else. Why should boys have all the fun for all actions, in which gals have proved to be efficient? Just a wide thought :)
Monday, July 2, 2007
Rest in Peace... Joe, Sunitha and the little angels
Sunday, 1st July..woke me up with a very shocking news..One of my college classmates and a dear friend of mine, Joseph, Sunitha and their little angels, Sanjana and Sreya passed away in a car accident on their way back to Joseph's home at Kollam from Ernakulam. Real tragic news..Couldn't believe it was true for some time and prayed it should never be true...But "HE" had taken the decision to take this wonderful family to his stride then and there.
Anyways, I was really shocked. Not only me..the whole of CEC, would be..I know... Joseph was a friend of all and a man who could be truly said lived fully as per his wishes alone and all the more, lived too cheerfully and enjoyed life to the fullest extent. His marriage itself was the talk of the college, truly coz he was just in 3rd sem(exactly crossed 21 years). Man of great dreams, and a guy who knows to talk right to the right people, That was Joe...And such a lovely couple they made..Joe and Sunitha..and the cute angels...
No words...God joined both of you as a couple. He gifted you two beautiful flowers and thankfully took all of you together to his palace. We miss you Joe...Miss your wonderful smile and decent and gentle nature. May all of your souls rest in peace. That is the only prayer which we mere human beings can do now.
This is a time when we think of how short lived we all are. And all the hungama we create for wealth, positions and all that in this short span, forgetting all sorts of values and virtues. May this never be repeated. May we not hear other tragic incidents like this..and Let us have the strength to accept "HIS" decisions and pray to him to guide us thru the right path. Winding this up, with a very cute snap of this beautiful family.
Anyways, I was really shocked. Not only me..the whole of CEC, would be..I know... Joseph was a friend of all and a man who could be truly said lived fully as per his wishes alone and all the more, lived too cheerfully and enjoyed life to the fullest extent. His marriage itself was the talk of the college, truly coz he was just in 3rd sem(exactly crossed 21 years). Man of great dreams, and a guy who knows to talk right to the right people, That was Joe...And such a lovely couple they made..Joe and Sunitha..and the cute angels...
No words...God joined both of you as a couple. He gifted you two beautiful flowers and thankfully took all of you together to his palace. We miss you Joe...Miss your wonderful smile and decent and gentle nature. May all of your souls rest in peace. That is the only prayer which we mere human beings can do now.
This is a time when we think of how short lived we all are. And all the hungama we create for wealth, positions and all that in this short span, forgetting all sorts of values and virtues. May this never be repeated. May we not hear other tragic incidents like this..and Let us have the strength to accept "HIS" decisions and pray to him to guide us thru the right path. Winding this up, with a very cute snap of this beautiful family.
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Happy Birthday Jisha...A memoir of my Tvm days..:)
Actually I was thinking of posting this on June 22 ...But as usual..Lazy me..:)..Summary : It did not happen that day. The reason for choosing June 22 is obvious..Jisha's birthday..So first of all..Wish u a very very very happy birthday..I know this is the one b day after three years when we are not together..So let me pray to Almighty to gift u all that is good for u..all which would bring only smiles in your face...And a sincere wish to enjoy your new den to the maximum....And may you continue to be yourself with that sweetest smile of yours and the great determination you have...And also be a good tamizhathi(which u can be easily ..:P )
So this day brought me back to memories of my Trivandrum days...to be truly called my Attinkuzhy days..(got the name Attinkuzhy after the place where we rented a place to stay). Life was really fun..even with the hectic working schedules in US Tech and the very sincere and too hardworking Vidhu, who believed in being in her office, (Nest Group) , if it was possible 24*7*365. Even with such time-for-nothing situations, we used to enjoy a lot...Used to have so much fun..Cooking, Trying out new recipes, Weekend Brunches, Outings, Movies, Real hot discussions on anything and everything under the sun, Gossips, Fashion, Beauty Tips..and what not...We were never short of topics. And of course, days when Aloor was there..she herself made way for us to discuss on and on and on...her daily routine and whatever she commits in a day takes more than 24 hours to be told and discussed and hence she would remain the glowing personality amongst all. After she entered into a new phase of life, then there were me, Jisha and Sowmya..to be joined by Vidhu...
And talking about Sowmya, the first and foremost thing that comes to me is her ability to sleep only in the day times and to be awake late nites. Wonder, if she was living in US timings here in India..And God knows, how does she live when she actually travelled to the US? :) ...may be she would be following Indian timings there...:P
Vidhu...the real workaholic...so sincere...and also too committed in making blunders..not in work, but otherwise, especially in the kitchen, and also a water maniac..So fond of washing dishes always, that a dishwasher would be an absolute wastage if she is there, coz she would probably be not satisfied with the cleanliness of the equipment in washing. :)
Jisha...The one who loved Malayalam a lot and was the only person to be talked about Malayalam books or articles or in fact, the only company for high range Malayalam movies(could be translated as award winning types or so). Also, our MBA exam studies were really remarkable. Assignment writings and submissions were worth getting A Grades or even higher if such things existed. :)
Also, joined by Jyothi and Geethu when I was about to make a move from there. And all those wonderful discussions with Jyothy when I was just about to leave were a subject matter for many essays by many great ppl ..... :)
We seriously had a hell of a time. Though I was in college hostel during my engineering college days, I should term my hostel life as a carefree and unorganized one and the Tvm days as the one where fun co-existing with responsibilities and worries with joy.And though work used to be capturing us too much, we never missed having fun. But one thought which comes to me now is that the ball of life keeps on revolving. It does nt stick even if you want things to be static. And coz of this ever changing feature of life is why emotions are there... feelings are there... If you don't miss something, the value of that is lost.. So let this be a tribute to the wonderful times at Attinkuzhy and also the a thanks-giving to Almighty for having created the feeling of "nostalgia", which truly is a boon to mankind to reminisce the past.
Love you all...Miss u lottsss..May life give you its very very very best :))
So this day brought me back to memories of my Trivandrum days...to be truly called my Attinkuzhy days..(got the name Attinkuzhy after the place where we rented a place to stay). Life was really fun..even with the hectic working schedules in US Tech and the very sincere and too hardworking Vidhu, who believed in being in her office, (Nest Group) , if it was possible 24*7*365. Even with such time-for-nothing situations, we used to enjoy a lot...Used to have so much fun..Cooking, Trying out new recipes, Weekend Brunches, Outings, Movies, Real hot discussions on anything and everything under the sun, Gossips, Fashion, Beauty Tips..and what not...We were never short of topics. And of course, days when Aloor was there..she herself made way for us to discuss on and on and on...her daily routine and whatever she commits in a day takes more than 24 hours to be told and discussed and hence she would remain the glowing personality amongst all. After she entered into a new phase of life, then there were me, Jisha and Sowmya..to be joined by Vidhu...
And talking about Sowmya, the first and foremost thing that comes to me is her ability to sleep only in the day times and to be awake late nites. Wonder, if she was living in US timings here in India..And God knows, how does she live when she actually travelled to the US? :) ...may be she would be following Indian timings there...:P
Vidhu...the real workaholic...so sincere...and also too committed in making blunders..not in work, but otherwise, especially in the kitchen, and also a water maniac..So fond of washing dishes always, that a dishwasher would be an absolute wastage if she is there, coz she would probably be not satisfied with the cleanliness of the equipment in washing. :)
Jisha...The one who loved Malayalam a lot and was the only person to be talked about Malayalam books or articles or in fact, the only company for high range Malayalam movies(could be translated as award winning types or so). Also, our MBA exam studies were really remarkable. Assignment writings and submissions were worth getting A Grades or even higher if such things existed. :)
Also, joined by Jyothi and Geethu when I was about to make a move from there. And all those wonderful discussions with Jyothy when I was just about to leave were a subject matter for many essays by many great ppl ..... :)
We seriously had a hell of a time. Though I was in college hostel during my engineering college days, I should term my hostel life as a carefree and unorganized one and the Tvm days as the one where fun co-existing with responsibilities and worries with joy.And though work used to be capturing us too much, we never missed having fun. But one thought which comes to me now is that the ball of life keeps on revolving. It does nt stick even if you want things to be static. And coz of this ever changing feature of life is why emotions are there... feelings are there... If you don't miss something, the value of that is lost.. So let this be a tribute to the wonderful times at Attinkuzhy and also the a thanks-giving to Almighty for having created the feeling of "nostalgia", which truly is a boon to mankind to reminisce the past.
Love you all...Miss u lottsss..May life give you its very very very best :))
So let me wind this up with a snap of all of us(except Aloor) on my wedding day..:)
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
My World :))
Being one who loves the concept of blogging, the first query to myself was "Why did nt I create one of my own?". Actually I love writing, I love penning down my emotions any time and even I love thinking and jotting down my ideas on anything and everything which make a move in my life. Still I did not create one for myself. Donno what did not prompt me to do that, but anyways may be the time has come now only.
And when I thought that I would start with the one thing which came to me was the world..the people who are with me thru thick and thin..the people who have made a mark in me...Yes..There are so many of them to whom I am indebted. But, when I start thinking, the first thing which would come to me is my family. My hubby, my dearest Gopu...who has become my sweetheart and best friend and..I seriously donno how to portray what he is to me..but he is the one who has given my life a new meaning...taught me how to lay the pieces correct in the jigsaw puzzle of life, and all the more, gave me the confidence to accept challenges and take life as it comes. We got married for almost an year now..and would be celebrating our first wedding anniversary soon....Anyways, I take this arena as the one to wish him once again a Belated Happy Birthday..and though formal and though I never say....a big note of gratitude for all that you are to me.
And here is a picture of our most memorable moment ......the day when we walked down the aisle.
And when I thought that I would start with the one thing which came to me was the world..the people who are with me thru thick and thin..the people who have made a mark in me...Yes..There are so many of them to whom I am indebted. But, when I start thinking, the first thing which would come to me is my family. My hubby, my dearest Gopu...who has become my sweetheart and best friend and..I seriously donno how to portray what he is to me..but he is the one who has given my life a new meaning...taught me how to lay the pieces correct in the jigsaw puzzle of life, and all the more, gave me the confidence to accept challenges and take life as it comes. We got married for almost an year now..and would be celebrating our first wedding anniversary soon....Anyways, I take this arena as the one to wish him once again a Belated Happy Birthday..and though formal and though I never say....a big note of gratitude for all that you are to me.
And here is a picture of our most memorable moment ......the day when we walked down the aisle.
So coming again, to myself...my Achan, Amma and Kunju...you can say...people who are so so so much to me that they are everything to me....Achan and Amma are people who have been strict with studies and behaviour and all that...but have never imposed anything..rather never been strict after a particular age. They taught me the good and bad, they taught me to distinguish right from wrong. They believed a lot in us, kids and brought us to a level in which we are confident enough to face the world and we really have the courage and maturity to decide ourselves. But, the good thing is that we don't say it out..neither me ..nor them...But inside, we are all one :)...And when I write this..I am forced to say.." I Miss You"...lots and lots and lots....
And Kunju...how do I describe her...As someone who has a real mature mind and the power to conquer the world, but does n't feel confident of anything and everything. Hey...That z not the real case..Just kidding for all her scribbings always..Anyways...a cute little sister, the best pal I ever have..That z her..And Miss u too lotts and lottsss.....
From this small family, last year I walked in as DIL to a "Meleparambil Aanveedu"(Hope Malayalis will remember this movie). Four bros of whom Gopu is the second, dad and mom and my SIL and Sreekutty make that big family. So learning as days traverse...what is in store for me:))
So, That z what my immediate world is...And let me learn more and solve this sudoku puzzle called life..and jot down my emotions so that it ll be an online diary for me.
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